Dating guys bigger girls


01-Nov-2016 10:15

I've always wanted to know what goes on inside the heads of men who refuse to date a woman just because she is fat.On the one hand, as a sex writer, I understand that people are attracted to different things, so I wanted to keep an open mind.I didn't date for a long time — far longer than [I think] is considered usual or acceptable amongst teenagers and twentysomethings. I guess it would've been nice to have company at all those miserable, Katy-Perry-fueled homecoming dances or yes, the prom.It would've been nice to not feel like the other when it came to exploring my sexuality (something I just didn't do).To them, it didn't matter that he was intelligent or loving or good; it just mattered that I would be the one carrying my boyfriend over the threshold someday. Logic and love prevailed over sizeism and antiquated gender roles! To see a larger woman with a smaller (be it shorter or skinnier) man just isn't the norm (unless the woman is a tall and statuesque model — then it's OK).I started to see our size difference as funny and cute. So in the course of these three years, here are some things I've heard and been asked.

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Here's what they had to say: Why don't you date fat women?It's OK — it's right — for a big dude to have a skinny wife. He respected and encouraged every dream and every goal to implant itself into my brain.



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